The Private Work
One-to-one with Kate Drummond
Something happens at a certain point in a woman's life.
She has done everything she was supposed to do. She has shown up, held things together, built a life she should, by any measure, feel proud of. And still — quietly, persistently — something doesn't fit. She can't always name it. She just knows she has drifted from herself, and she isn't sure when it happened or where to begin finding her way back.
If you recognise that feeling, you are already in the right place.
This is the slow, private work of returning to yourself
— with someone walking alongside who has done it herself.
There is no curriculum here. No steps to follow, no version of you to become. Just honest, unhurried attention to what is actually happening for you — and the space to begin hearing yourself again.
"I felt safe and heard." — Julie, UK
How we work together
The work is conversation, reflection, and intuition. There are no formulas, no worksheets you'll abandon, no version of yourself you're being asked to become.
I draw on lived experience in midlife, motherhood, longevity, alcohol-free living, plant-based wellness, and nervous system regulation — but only when it serves the
woman in front of me.
Mostly, I listen.
I work with a small number of women at any time. The relationship is private, the rhythm is steady, the energy is calm. You leave each session more yourself, not more managed.
When you are ready, there are a few ways we can work together.
The Offerings
OFFERING ONE - IN-PERSON- GLOBALLY
The Private Reset
A day. One woman. One room. One return.
A single, immersive day of private reflection. For the woman at a threshold, she can feel but cannot yet name.
INVESTMENT
£1,800 — the fee for the day. Travel and accommodation itemised separately at cost.
Available globally · in person only
OFFERING THREE
The Return — 6-months
Six months of deep, private work.
The deepest 'let's get shit done' offering. For the woman whose work requires more than one season — and who values the continuity of a long, private relationship.
INVESTMENT
£4,500 — six months · weekly · Zoom/Phone
Included: 1 full in-person day - midpoint
Travel and accommodation arranged separately when hosted outside Kent.
Quiet questions
Eight honest answers to the things women most often ask before reaching out. If
you have a question that isn't here, email me directly at kate@thepurposefullife.com.
"I have had horrible coaches and so called mentors who know nothing but their own agenda. More harmful than good. Kate is gentle, kind, listens — she appreciates me as a person, not as money to be earned." — Janice
The next step is just a conversation.
There is a free 30-minute connection call, no obligation to decide anything on the call. It is simply a chance to speak, to ask whatever you need to ask, and to feel whether this is the right fit.
You can book that call here.
There is no pressure and no pitch. If after talking it doesn't feel right, that is a completely honest outcome. This work only makes sense if it is the right thing for you.
If you are not quite ready to talk, you are welcome to begin with The 8-Minute Reset —
a free five-day return to yourself, sent to your inbox.
Or - if you would rather work in a small group of women - The Invitation